But they...
- did it on purpose. 
- were smirking. 
- know better. 
- are being defiant. 
- are being a bully. 
- just don’t like to be told no. 
- should listen the first time. 
- pretend not to hear me. 
- have been told not to do it before. 
- know exactly what they are doing. 
- should just calm down. 
- are making a big deal out of nothing. 
- just want attention. 
- think they don’t have to follow the rules. 
- don’t have any rules at home. 
- know better. 
- are being defiant. 
- are being a bully. 
- just don’t like to be told no. 
- should listen the first time. 
- pretend not to hear me. 
- have been told not to do it before. 
- know exactly what they are doing. 
- should just calm down. 
- are making a big deal out of nothing. 
- just want attention. 
- think they don’t have to follow the rules. 
- don’t have any rules at home. - But what if they... - Are young children who have only been on this planet for 1,2,3,4 or 5 years. - Are young children who are learning how to navigate life within a group of same-aged children. - Are young children who are dysregulated and need a stable adult to support them through co-regulation. - Are young children who are modeling behaviors they have seen displayed by the adults in their lives. - Are young children who don't feel securely attached to their caregiver. - Are young children learning to manage their emotions and impulses the only way they know how. - Imagine a world where we don't always view young children through the lens of purposeful misbehavior... 


